Replace The Negatives In Your Life, With Positives And Move Your Life Ahead.
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Most of us are not aware of the amount of negative influences in our lives. We are bombarded with negative messages from the media, the people around us, and most damaging of all, ourselves.
The first step in the process in replacing negatives with positives in your life is to make a decision to start looking for the negative messages and ways to replace them with positives. Decide that you will focus on the positive in this world.
Begin to drastically cut down on the amount of news you take in. Most people start their day with the news. And of course most of the news is bad news, fires, floods, etc. Then it is on to traffic and weather, which also stresses the negatives. So by the time you have finished your coffee, you have had enough bad news to last a week. Does all this bad news make you want to throw open the door and greet the new days, no quite the opposite. And how about the way we end the day? Many of us watch the news before going to bed and get a big dose of negative information just before trying to go to sleep. Is it any wonder so many people have trouble sleeping? The mood we are in before we go to sleep carries over to the next morning, so you are setting yourself up for starting the next day in a bad mood. Odds are you don’t need all that negative information you are taking in from the news, and you will function just fine without it.
Replace the news you were taking in with such things as, motivational tapes, uplifting music and sites that stress good news. Also reading empowering books helps a great deal. Books can be a fantastic way to recharge your life. Look for success stories, biographies of successful people, etc and see what works for you. You will begin to feel better right away.
Your next step is to limit the amount of TV you watch. A recent study showed that 78% of the people watching TV, are not interested in the program they are watching at any given time. So watching TV is probably making you bored at best, and taking you away from actives that would be more fun. Prime time is the period when most people are watching TV; you can make it your prime time by turning off the TV and using that time to move your life ahead.
Next you need to limit your exposure to negative people. Most people don’t realize how draining it is to be around negative people, but they drain your energy and spirit in many ways. Negative people pull you down, so work to remove them from your life to the extent you can. Never get involved in the office pity party, or complaint sessions that come your way. Seek out people that support you and that you feel good being around and use these people to replace the negative people in your life.
The most damaging source of negativity is ourselves. Most of us generate lots of negative self talk that our minds accept as the truth and results in our being held back in many ways. We focus on our shortcomings, our problems, and spend our time predicting more bad news for ourselves, generating lots of fear and worry, while undercutting our ability to try new things, etc. Begin to focus on the positive aspects of you. What are your unique strengths, what have you accomplished, how are you different and better than other people? Use visualization and affirmations to build images of yourself accomplishing the things you want and use these to replace the negative images. Give yourself lots of credit for everything you do right, so you are getting even more positive news about yourself. Also, set aside three minutes every day to think about all the good things you have in your life right now. The process of thinking of the good things in your life, will generate good feelings for you that will last much of the day.
Don’t forget to take care of your body. Eat healthy, cut out some bad habits, and get regular exercise in order to boost your self-esteem while building your strength and endurance, so you can accomplish more.
Helping others will also help you feel better about yourself. Take time to get involved in a charity, animal shelter, or other activates that help others. You will get good feedback from others and develop a genuine sense that you are a good person. What you put out comes back to you, so make sure it is good that goes out.
By replacing the negatives in your life, with positives, you will make yourself and probably the world a better place. You will feel better mentally and physically, plus accomplish many of the things you wanted to. Nothing is ever accomplished without action, so start now to move your life ahead.
Most of us are not aware of the amount of negative influences in our lives. We are bombarded with negative messages from the media, the people around us, and most damaging of all, ourselves.
The first step in the process in replacing negatives with positives in your life is to make a decision to start looking for the negative messages and ways to replace them with positives. Decide that you will focus on the positive in this world.
Begin to drastically cut down on the amount of news you take in. Most people start their day with the news. And of course most of the news is bad news, fires, floods, etc. Then it is on to traffic and weather, which also stresses the negatives. So by the time you have finished your coffee, you have had enough bad news to last a week. Does all this bad news make you want to throw open the door and greet the new days, no quite the opposite. And how about the way we end the day? Many of us watch the news before going to bed and get a big dose of negative information just before trying to go to sleep. Is it any wonder so many people have trouble sleeping? The mood we are in before we go to sleep carries over to the next morning, so you are setting yourself up for starting the next day in a bad mood. Odds are you don’t need all that negative information you are taking in from the news, and you will function just fine without it.
Replace the news you were taking in with such things as, motivational tapes, uplifting music and sites that stress good news. Also reading empowering books helps a great deal. Books can be a fantastic way to recharge your life. Look for success stories, biographies of successful people, etc and see what works for you. You will begin to feel better right away.
Your next step is to limit the amount of TV you watch. A recent study showed that 78% of the people watching TV, are not interested in the program they are watching at any given time. So watching TV is probably making you bored at best, and taking you away from actives that would be more fun. Prime time is the period when most people are watching TV; you can make it your prime time by turning off the TV and using that time to move your life ahead.
Next you need to limit your exposure to negative people. Most people don’t realize how draining it is to be around negative people, but they drain your energy and spirit in many ways. Negative people pull you down, so work to remove them from your life to the extent you can. Never get involved in the office pity party, or complaint sessions that come your way. Seek out people that support you and that you feel good being around and use these people to replace the negative people in your life.
The most damaging source of negativity is ourselves. Most of us generate lots of negative self talk that our minds accept as the truth and results in our being held back in many ways. We focus on our shortcomings, our problems, and spend our time predicting more bad news for ourselves, generating lots of fear and worry, while undercutting our ability to try new things, etc. Begin to focus on the positive aspects of you. What are your unique strengths, what have you accomplished, how are you different and better than other people? Use visualization and affirmations to build images of yourself accomplishing the things you want and use these to replace the negative images. Give yourself lots of credit for everything you do right, so you are getting even more positive news about yourself. Also, set aside three minutes every day to think about all the good things you have in your life right now. The process of thinking of the good things in your life, will generate good feelings for you that will last much of the day.
Don’t forget to take care of your body. Eat healthy, cut out some bad habits, and get regular exercise in order to boost your self-esteem while building your strength and endurance, so you can accomplish more.
Helping others will also help you feel better about yourself. Take time to get involved in a charity, animal shelter, or other activates that help others. You will get good feedback from others and develop a genuine sense that you are a good person. What you put out comes back to you, so make sure it is good that goes out.
By replacing the negatives in your life, with positives, you will make yourself and probably the world a better place. You will feel better mentally and physically, plus accomplish many of the things you wanted to. Nothing is ever accomplished without action, so start now to move your life ahead.
No Guarantees
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Life is like a road. There are long and short roads; smooth and rocky roads; crooked and straight paths. Just like any road, there are corners, detours, and crossroads in life. Definitely the most confusing road that you come across is a crossroad. With four roads to choose from and with limited knowledge on where they would go, which road will you take?
There are no guarantees. This is one of the most essential things you must understand about life. Nobody alleged that choosing to do the right thing all the time would always lead you to happiness. Loving someone with all your heart does not guarantee that it will be returned. Gaining fame and fortune does not guarantee happiness. There are many potential outcomes, which you cannot control. The only thing you have power over is the decisions that you will make, and how you react to different situations.
Had you known that you were making an erroneous decision, would you have gone along with it? Definitely not, why would you choose a particular path when you know it would get you lost? However, think about results that occurred because you did make that decision? Was there something good that came from it? Did you learn a lesson?
You can’t allow indecision about whether your choice is right or wrong cause you to be immobile. You need to keep moving along your life’s road and sometimes that means having blind faith in yourself and your decision-making. If you have taken the time to know yourself and what you want from life, you can better your chances of making correct decisions, even when there are unknowns involved.
Life can be an exciting, albeit, bumpy at times, ride. Don’t let indecision find you sitting on the curb and watching everyone pass you buy. Risk it, take that chance, and you will not regret that you did.
A Purpose Given Is A Purpose Worth Living
These days there’s a mad rush to be purpose driven and I wholeheartly agree, it is better to be purpose driven than going in reverse or stuck in neutral. However, why would I be content to be just purpose driven and not living my life’s purpose on purpose? I believe the real reason most people are okay with being just purpose driven is because they don’t know how to identify their real purpose for existing or what purpose means when it relates to individuals. If you’re readi...
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These days there’s a mad rush to be purpose driven and I wholeheartly agree, it is better to be purpose driven than going in reverse or stuck in neutral. However, why would I be content to be just purpose driven and not living my life’s purpose on purpose? I believe the real reason most people are okay with being just purpose driven is because they don’t know how to identify their real purpose for existing or what purpose means when it relates to individuals. If you’re reading this article, this is the day that was created for you to begin living your life with a purpose on purpose.
The (buzz) word purpose can be substituted for a number of words, some of which could be reason, intention, intent, use, idea, objective, aim, function or determination. In my opinion, a purpose is the reason why you exist to fulfill a specific task that only you can fulfill at a specific time and season here on the earth. A purpose should not, but often times are confused with a person’s call. Purpose and call are different. A call is a particular business, occupation, profession or trade. Once again, purpose is your intended reason for being. Most people live out their lives fulfilling their call, not their purpose. They have prepared themselves for a chosen field or profession. Since they do not know their purpose, they work in that field unhappy for many years and retire. They never venture out to find out what makes them happy. I’ve finally mentioned the operative word---HAPPY, not just purpose!
Although happiness is evident when you are fulfilling your purpose, there are several other key VIRTUES that will accompany happiness. First, how do we begin to find what our purpose is in life? Why are we here? Like everything else in life, finding your purpose, begins with finding and understanding of who you are. Understanding one’s self is a process that most people neglect or choose not to go through. Understanding who you are as well as self-examination and evaluation is the beginning of identifying your purpose. It is important you get a mental picture of what you look like living your purpose now. I believe one of the most powerful forces in the universe is love and another is our ability to choose our own thoughts. A single action is derived from a thought. One of my favorite sayings is, “The me I see, is the me I’ll be.” In other words, I must begin to see myself as I want to be and not as I am. Once you can mentally see yourself living your purpose, those very images and thoughts you have about yourself will began to draw the desired thought patterns and behavior into your life that will produce what you desire.
Determining to change your way of thinking about yourself is paramount if you want to find your purpose. Another important area for identifying your purpose is discovering the spiritual part of you. You must become spiritually centered and develop a spiritual relationship with God. Some people don’t believe that there is a God, but just because the belief exists, does not mean that the belief is truth and nor does it mean that God does not exist. Research has suggested that people who have engaged and nurtured a personal relationship with God live healthier, happier, successful and longer lives than those who do not. It is out of the spiritual you that you will determine and establish your moral and value system. Your own beliefs of right and wrong and live your life according to those very beliefs without compromising them for anyone. And as you continue on the path to living your purpose, don’t forget to mentally see yourself purpose living.
At this point of discovery you will start to identify your passion if you don’t already know. What is it that gives you a burning desire to fulfill or complete in life? If you are driven with passion to do certain things and you are really focused on these things as well as get great fulfillment and enjoyment in doing them, then you may have identified your purpose. However, most have not arrived to this place unless they understand the importance of relationships and serving others.
Along with developing relationships and serving others, you must also master the art of effective communications and setting boundaries. Learning how to effectively communicate in all of your relationships will enable you to successfully set boundaries. Setting boundaries will bring and give you the respect you need to have long, successful and lasting relationships. These same boundaries will also help you in accepting and respecting the boundaries of others.
Once you are confident in your relationships with boundaries, you are now ready to re-evaluate and establish your goals. A goal can be the same as a purpose, but try looking at goals as an outline of achievements to your path. Let goals be nothing more than categories and sub-categories of the outline in which you have created. With this same outline, now you can begin to road map your success of accomplishing these goals step by step.
Finally, finding your purpose in life is not a secret, nor is it a complicated task. It does however require a commitment and dedication on your part to transform yourself from the inside out from a purpose given into a life with a purpose that you’re living.
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You Don't Have to..
you don't have to be rude to make a point, you don't have to shout to get the point across.
you can always choose to be tactful or tactless, if u choose the latter, don't tag it as "that's just the way i am..."
coz that's BS!! Everything that comes out of your mouth is ur responsibility!
you don't have to put other people down just to feel better about yourself,.
you don't have to put the blame on others just cause u can't stand the thought of being at fault.
and if people quit u, it's either they need a breather, a space to let u realize how you've been behaving.. or..
they've had enough of what you dish out, and just say.." screw you, I'm done."
there are people who can get by and tolerate rudeness and uncalled for sarcasm.. and that's okay..
but im not one of them.. so don't be one to me.
and if that makes me a bad person.. then so be it..
bottom line..
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
and im sick of being mistreated, and disrespected... and the person not even realizing that they're being
disrespectful..
who the hell would want to be in the company of someone who makes u feel bad more than half of the day?
yun lang naman....
you can always choose to be tactful or tactless, if u choose the latter, don't tag it as "that's just the way i am..."
coz that's BS!! Everything that comes out of your mouth is ur responsibility!
you don't have to put other people down just to feel better about yourself,.
you don't have to put the blame on others just cause u can't stand the thought of being at fault.
and if people quit u, it's either they need a breather, a space to let u realize how you've been behaving.. or..
they've had enough of what you dish out, and just say.." screw you, I'm done."
there are people who can get by and tolerate rudeness and uncalled for sarcasm.. and that's okay..
but im not one of them.. so don't be one to me.
and if that makes me a bad person.. then so be it..
bottom line..
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
and im sick of being mistreated, and disrespected... and the person not even realizing that they're being
disrespectful..
who the hell would want to be in the company of someone who makes u feel bad more than half of the day?
yun lang naman....
Landslide.. performed by Gwyneth Paltrow
Landslide lyrics
Songwriters: Nicks, Stevie;
I took my love, I took it down
Climbed a mountain and I turned around
And I saw my reflection in the snow covered hills
Till the landslide brought me down
Oh, mirror in the sky, what is love?
Can the child within my heart rise above?
Can I sail through the changing ocean tides?
Can I handle the seasons of my life?
Mmm, mmm, mmm
Well, I've been afraid of changing
'Cause I've built my life around you
But time makes you bolder
Even children get older and I'm getting older too
Well, I've been afraid of changing
'Cause I've built my life around you
But time makes you bolder
Even children get older and I'm getting older too
Oh, I'm getting older too
Awh, take my love, take it down
Awh, climb a mountain and turn around
And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills
Well, the landslide bring it down
And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills
Well, the landslide bring it down
Oh, the landslide bring it down
..
It's a song about someone who've made an impact in your life, and been a great part of it,
whether through good or bad, or in between. and the time has come to make u look back and
realize how important there role were, and having to go through life w/o them is unimaginable...
and yet u have to move on and live life w/o them, coz that's just how it should be,
and no matter how much u think it will all be for the better.....
u just know it would be different..
ull move on and start anew.. but as you move through and with the changes..
deep in ur heart is a beautiful memory of someone.. who has helped u become
strong enough to go through it all.
and u may never see them again..
but there's an unspoken understanding...
that you'll always wish eachother well. :)
Sunday, March 13, 2011 at 9:53am
Songwriters: Nicks, Stevie;
I took my love, I took it down
Climbed a mountain and I turned around
And I saw my reflection in the snow covered hills
Till the landslide brought me down
Oh, mirror in the sky, what is love?
Can the child within my heart rise above?
Can I sail through the changing ocean tides?
Can I handle the seasons of my life?
Mmm, mmm, mmm
Well, I've been afraid of changing
'Cause I've built my life around you
But time makes you bolder
Even children get older and I'm getting older too
Well, I've been afraid of changing
'Cause I've built my life around you
But time makes you bolder
Even children get older and I'm getting older too
Oh, I'm getting older too
Awh, take my love, take it down
Awh, climb a mountain and turn around
And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills
Well, the landslide bring it down
And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills
Well, the landslide bring it down
Oh, the landslide bring it down
..
It's a song about someone who've made an impact in your life, and been a great part of it,
whether through good or bad, or in between. and the time has come to make u look back and
realize how important there role were, and having to go through life w/o them is unimaginable...
and yet u have to move on and live life w/o them, coz that's just how it should be,
and no matter how much u think it will all be for the better.....
u just know it would be different..
ull move on and start anew.. but as you move through and with the changes..
deep in ur heart is a beautiful memory of someone.. who has helped u become
strong enough to go through it all.
and u may never see them again..
but there's an unspoken understanding...
that you'll always wish eachother well. :)
Sunday, March 13, 2011 at 9:53am
Thoughts
It's okay when people laugh at me when they see how transparent i am with how and what i feel, as long as it doesn't cross the line.
i've always been tagged as "emotional". i say and act how i feel. i look happy when i am, i appear sad if i am, i'm caught in pure surprise when i am, my eyebrows meet when i'm upset. i cry when i'm hurt and offended, i give out hugs in appreciation. i give a thumbs up sign and say Great Job to a worthy recipient. i'm silent when there's a need for me to shut up and bite my tongue, and i walk away when i know it's not worth the fight. that's just me.. i may not be the most composed and together person. but always... i try my best to put a smile on my face, and try to look for something positive than dwell on the negative. you may hate me or love me, but the point is... whatever i dish out, it's my truth..
but i've never ever been rude and unjust, nor judgemental and disrespectful, even to the ones i don't see eye to eye with, and i reserve the right to expect nothing less.
yun lang naman.
i've always been tagged as "emotional". i say and act how i feel. i look happy when i am, i appear sad if i am, i'm caught in pure surprise when i am, my eyebrows meet when i'm upset. i cry when i'm hurt and offended, i give out hugs in appreciation. i give a thumbs up sign and say Great Job to a worthy recipient. i'm silent when there's a need for me to shut up and bite my tongue, and i walk away when i know it's not worth the fight. that's just me.. i may not be the most composed and together person. but always... i try my best to put a smile on my face, and try to look for something positive than dwell on the negative. you may hate me or love me, but the point is... whatever i dish out, it's my truth..
but i've never ever been rude and unjust, nor judgemental and disrespectful, even to the ones i don't see eye to eye with, and i reserve the right to expect nothing less.
yun lang naman.
Be Kind To Yourself And Others
Kindness is a generosity of spirit. It comes to life when we give of ourselves and our time to be of help to others, without expecting anything in return. When you show kindness to somebody you bring out the best in yourself, and a side-effect of brightening up somebody else’s day is to feel happier in the moment yourself.
Pay attention to the impact your behaviour has on others, and notice your own feelings in association to their reactions. And think about how you feel yourself when somebody else shows you kindness. What you give comes back to you in even greater quantity. When you are kind, you not only get an immediate payback in terms of a feel-good factor, you will also receive kindness from others, and in completely unexpected and unrelated ways.
It is so easy to find ways to be kind to others: say something supportive when you instinctively feel someone needs to hear it; offer help without being asked for it; smile encouragingly; swallow your criticisms; listen without judgement; let mistakes slide instead of assigning blame; make small sacrifices for the benefit of somebody in greater need.
A great rule of thumb I apply to my life is to Do unto others as I’d have them do unto me, and, do unto myself as I’d do unto others. The latter part is just as important as the first. It is no good to be consistently kind to others and forget to be so to yourself. You will run out of steam, and feel less able to show kindness to others if you don’t replenish your own mind, body and spirit on a regular basis.
Being kind to yourself means getting your needs met, being gentle with yourself instead of critical when you feel you’re not performing at your best, forgiving yourself when the need arises instead of beating yourself up. When you get into the habit of treating yourself with kindness, it becomes much easier to extend that consideration and behavior to others.
3/7/11
Pay attention to the impact your behaviour has on others, and notice your own feelings in association to their reactions. And think about how you feel yourself when somebody else shows you kindness. What you give comes back to you in even greater quantity. When you are kind, you not only get an immediate payback in terms of a feel-good factor, you will also receive kindness from others, and in completely unexpected and unrelated ways.
It is so easy to find ways to be kind to others: say something supportive when you instinctively feel someone needs to hear it; offer help without being asked for it; smile encouragingly; swallow your criticisms; listen without judgement; let mistakes slide instead of assigning blame; make small sacrifices for the benefit of somebody in greater need.
A great rule of thumb I apply to my life is to Do unto others as I’d have them do unto me, and, do unto myself as I’d do unto others. The latter part is just as important as the first. It is no good to be consistently kind to others and forget to be so to yourself. You will run out of steam, and feel less able to show kindness to others if you don’t replenish your own mind, body and spirit on a regular basis.
Being kind to yourself means getting your needs met, being gentle with yourself instead of critical when you feel you’re not performing at your best, forgiving yourself when the need arises instead of beating yourself up. When you get into the habit of treating yourself with kindness, it becomes much easier to extend that consideration and behavior to others.
3/7/11
A Positive Thursday..
Everyday, some people will try to drag you into their negative energy, but as long as you know better
than to let them get to you, You'll be fine.
So, surround urself w/ positive and happy people, fill ur head w/ great memories and happy thoughts,
find something to laugh about, and before you know it, you're smiling again.
Tears may fall once in a while, the cuts may get deeper and take a while to heal,
but as long as in between those tears and deep sighs, you can find something in
your heart to smile about...
you just know.. this too shall pass,
and though life maybe hard at times,
it's still, and always will be...
Beautiful.
03/03/11
***** awkward silence *****
You: bat di ka na lang nag Librarian?
Me: nyek? baket?
You: eh kase ur always keeping ur silence.
Me: eh bat naman ako mag iingay?
You: d naman kailangan ng ingay e, kahit ung may marinig man lang.
Me: ah ic.. teka.. ano bang topic?
You: ahsus. touch move ka nanaman. 2011 na. bago bago naman.
Me: hehe.
You: ayun.. the inevitable "hehe"
Me: (*smiles*)
You: (*exhales heavily then shrugs shoulders*)
***** awkward silence *****
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Someone's silence doesn't always mean they have nothing to say.
Sometimes, they'd rather keep mum, than regret ever saying anything.
Specially when too much is riding on those words.
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Friday, January 14, 2011 at 12:58pm
Yet Again
hayz, im uninspired yet again. some people are meant to disappoint u. the reason why i liked him so much is due to i thought he's different from the rest, that though he's liked by many, he never even for once took the time to even consider that thought and he remained as loyal as he can be to the one that he belongs to. just when i thought that it's possible that those type of guys still exist, he turned around and became just like any other guy.
don't get me wrong, im not the one he belongs to, im one of those girls who crushes over him, and the reason why i liked him so much is coz he's ever loyal to his queen. and its more of an admiration of that character that he has that makes me think he's a catch, coz on the looks department he's just so-so.it's more of being drawn to something or someone you can never have that keeps my "crushing" and kilig" afloat.
and then one day....
he proved me wrong.
i should be happy right???
but no i'm not. i'm disappointed.
and even sad,
kala ko iba sya. un pala.. kagaya dn sya ng iba.
:(
Sunday, November 28, 2010 at 8:23am
don't get me wrong, im not the one he belongs to, im one of those girls who crushes over him, and the reason why i liked him so much is coz he's ever loyal to his queen. and its more of an admiration of that character that he has that makes me think he's a catch, coz on the looks department he's just so-so.it's more of being drawn to something or someone you can never have that keeps my "crushing" and kilig" afloat.
and then one day....
he proved me wrong.
i should be happy right???
but no i'm not. i'm disappointed.
and even sad,
kala ko iba sya. un pala.. kagaya dn sya ng iba.
:(
Sunday, November 28, 2010 at 8:23am
Till Then...
Day by day, im drawn to this f0rce of nature. I may n0t sh0w it, may n0t luk lyk it, may n0t even say it, but i am, m0re than u kn0w.
They say infatuati0n only lasts for 4 m0nths... Then i d0n't want to c0unt. I wish i could be lyk th0se other girls, n0t afraid t0 sh0w what and h0w they feel. I wish i can have that... Freed0m.
But i d0n't.
So i'll just c0ntent myself by putting my hands up, and play my s0ng, till the butterflies fly away. N0d my head, m0ve my hips, ill just dance, it's g0nna be okay, spin the rec0rd, it's g0nna be okay, i'll just dance, till i'm breathless, c0z I wanna be with this f0rce of nature... So freakin' bad...
Thursday, October 21, 2010 at 8:12am
They say infatuati0n only lasts for 4 m0nths... Then i d0n't want to c0unt. I wish i could be lyk th0se other girls, n0t afraid t0 sh0w what and h0w they feel. I wish i can have that... Freed0m.
But i d0n't.
So i'll just c0ntent myself by putting my hands up, and play my s0ng, till the butterflies fly away. N0d my head, m0ve my hips, ill just dance, it's g0nna be okay, spin the rec0rd, it's g0nna be okay, i'll just dance, till i'm breathless, c0z I wanna be with this f0rce of nature... So freakin' bad...
Thursday, October 21, 2010 at 8:12am
What Do You Do?!!
I'm sick of taking crap from other people!!!! tipong gusto mo lang i share ung labor of love mo tapos ang galing, hanep!!! hanep talaga, kahit anong saya mo.. kaya nilang makaisip ng paraan to put u down.. GRABE!!!!!!!
What do you do when people are Inconsiderate??
Ignore them..
What do you do when someone is Rude?
Pay them no mind.
What do you do when someone is dragging you down?
Refuse to come with..
What do you do when someone is bad mouthing you?
Feel sorry for them.
What do you do when someone habitually offends you and tags it to " Ganito lang talaga ako?"
Take there word for it.
What do you do when you feel the urge to reciprocate someone's bad behaviour?
Don't!!!
What do you do when your running out of patience?
Run off to find some more.
What do you do when someone goes around telling everyone there version of the truth?
Be quiet
What do you do when you feel like sucker punching someone for all those times they disrespected you?
Close your eyes and picture it happening. But never let ur fist land on there face.
What do you do when hate and contempt is threatening to over power love and understanding?
BREATHE.. Till it hurts no more.
EASIER SAID THAN DONE...
Sunday, July 11, 2010 at 10:24am
Here's To..
Break ups are hard, not only for the used to be couple, but also to the people who were brought together by their relationship. They also have to move on & move forward, and just watch from afar, the once perfect couple starting a new life without each other.
If only breaking hearts would sound like huge doors banging, bombs exploding, or glasses shattering to shake up the world, maybe there would be less hurt and pain in people's lives. Maybe through this we'd be careful with our promises, actions, and words to one another, and to whom we give our hearts to.
But hearts break in silence,without a sound, it battles through every painful cut, and you just know...
it will never be the same again. But you know what's great about it? It'll live on, continue beating till every wound becomes a scar, and every pain becomes life's lesson. And it will love again, maybe not the same as before, but even more than it ever has.
So, here's to moving on and starting anew. Here's to break ups that gives newly singles the chance to grow in their own right, here's to being on ur own to find your true self. Here's to the people that could relate one way or another. And here's to friends that will help you through.
Here's to sleepless nights, to tears that would make you stronger, to looking back on experiences that would make you wiser, to pain that would make u tougher. Here's to letting go.
To love lost, to memories forced to be a thing of the past, here's to new beginnings, here's to new hellos, here's to step 1 of moving forward....
the hardest of them all...
Ready...
Set....
June 7, 2010 at 4:41pm
If only breaking hearts would sound like huge doors banging, bombs exploding, or glasses shattering to shake up the world, maybe there would be less hurt and pain in people's lives. Maybe through this we'd be careful with our promises, actions, and words to one another, and to whom we give our hearts to.
But hearts break in silence,without a sound, it battles through every painful cut, and you just know...
it will never be the same again. But you know what's great about it? It'll live on, continue beating till every wound becomes a scar, and every pain becomes life's lesson. And it will love again, maybe not the same as before, but even more than it ever has.
So, here's to moving on and starting anew. Here's to break ups that gives newly singles the chance to grow in their own right, here's to being on ur own to find your true self. Here's to the people that could relate one way or another. And here's to friends that will help you through.
Here's to sleepless nights, to tears that would make you stronger, to looking back on experiences that would make you wiser, to pain that would make u tougher. Here's to letting go.
To love lost, to memories forced to be a thing of the past, here's to new beginnings, here's to new hellos, here's to step 1 of moving forward....
the hardest of them all...
Ready...
Set....
Here comes Goodbye.
June 7, 2010 at 4:41pm
Cold Morning
Woke up to this cold m0rning, th0ughts started c0ming in. Recent events had me thinking, a break up btwn 2 close frnds, a family member getng sick, a BFF leaving for h0pes of better chances in lyf.
This events mybe diffrnt circumstances. But c0mm0n den0minat0r here's losing s0methng one way or an0ther.
A love lost, due to wanting same things in lyf & for echothr but circumstances are pulling 'em in diffrnt directi0ns.
Loss of freed0m to be a fully functi0nal Mother & wife due to being diagn0sed w/ AML.
Loss of time w/ her family due to not having the c0nfidence that she'd be able to provide for them in our country's ec0n0mic state.
I for one wouldn't say I kn0w what they're going thr0ugh, coz I'm sure as hell I d0nt, but w/n me lies d h0pe that, things will get better. It mybe raining n0w, it may take 4evr for the last dr0p to fall, but it will. The sun will be out soon, st0rm will pass, the w0rst will be over, and that, u maybe br0ken inside...
But Hey, ur Ok. Ü
Sunday, June 6, 2010 at 7:22am
This events mybe diffrnt circumstances. But c0mm0n den0minat0r here's losing s0methng one way or an0ther.
A love lost, due to wanting same things in lyf & for echothr but circumstances are pulling 'em in diffrnt directi0ns.
Loss of freed0m to be a fully functi0nal Mother & wife due to being diagn0sed w/ AML.
Loss of time w/ her family due to not having the c0nfidence that she'd be able to provide for them in our country's ec0n0mic state.
I for one wouldn't say I kn0w what they're going thr0ugh, coz I'm sure as hell I d0nt, but w/n me lies d h0pe that, things will get better. It mybe raining n0w, it may take 4evr for the last dr0p to fall, but it will. The sun will be out soon, st0rm will pass, the w0rst will be over, and that, u maybe br0ken inside...
But Hey, ur Ok. Ü
Sunday, June 6, 2010 at 7:22am
choices...
wud u rather go for something that ur heart is not a hundred percent into? just for the sake of showing someone how much u appreciate there effort and time to show u how much they care?
or would u rather be selfless enough to let them go and find there own happiness... even if it means losing someone who has grown to be a part of ur life and healing? and risking the what might have beens and what could be?
and knowing the possibilty that someday... somewhere... seeing them happy w/ someone else and knowing that u made that happen might be one of the biggest mistakes uve ever done.
or would u rather be selfless enough to let them go and find there own happiness... even if it means losing someone who has grown to be a part of ur life and healing? and risking the what might have beens and what could be?
and knowing the possibilty that someday... somewhere... seeing them happy w/ someone else and knowing that u made that happen might be one of the biggest mistakes uve ever done.
The Little Girl and the Big CHAnge.
i feel so sad.. i never thought the time would come that i would seriously consider leaving our homeland to go live in a foreign one. And today it just did. And I'm serious about it. Its not bcoz of the economy, nor poverty. I can only take so much of this crap that our Government has been putting us through.
Corruption? that's a given.
Anomalies? What the hell is effin' new?!!!
But for them to strip me off my rights to have the freedom to choose who in my own, honest, and personal opinion has the capacity to lead our country and provide good governance... that's something I refuse to just watch happen.
It's hard enough to swallow the fact that they have been stealing from us since day one, while continuously adding to our already worth a Trillion debt in the World Bank.. that mind you... I am pretty sure will carry on to my son's generation of hard working tax payers... but for them to come to this extent? to just push through this w/ complete, total, and blatant disregard to the people's cries of disapproval and dismay?? just bcoz it would play to the best of their interest???
How dare them... and most importantly to the LITTLE GIRL behind all this? How dare you... I never really had any respect for you... never liked you, and never will, but I never thought I would despise you this much.... that it has come to the extent that seeing bad things happen to you... would be equivalent to any day that id have a bowl of popcorn on my lap and a glass of soda in my hands.
Is there really nothing else that we can do as Filipinoes to show our protest to this Little Girl but organize a rally??? coz that is so 2003... and that is the main reason why that despicable person is in the palace in the 1st place!!
I thought her reign would soon be over, and i have been praying that she will be replaced by someone who is the "Lesser Evil" coz I honestly think that so far she is the Ultimate one. And now there's a really good chance that that's not even gonna happen for the dimwit refuses to step down from power.
Im sick of her.
I've had enough of her.
I want her out of that palace.
Out of the Government System.
and most Importantly out of power.
I want a new leader.
I want to exercise my freedom and right to choose one.
I want to vote.
And the sad part is... as of the moment.. I really don't think that there is really someone who can stop her from executing her evil plans... and the only way I can think of, for me not to be under her governance, is to simply get out of the place where it applies..
I have never been a hard core patriot.. But I love this country and am proud to be a Filipino..
But right now... if this CHAnge really does happen.. This is not really the place where I want my son to grow up in. If they will strip me off my rights.. Im sure as hell they would my son too.
May God Help Us All.
Corruption? that's a given.
Anomalies? What the hell is effin' new?!!!
But for them to strip me off my rights to have the freedom to choose who in my own, honest, and personal opinion has the capacity to lead our country and provide good governance... that's something I refuse to just watch happen.
It's hard enough to swallow the fact that they have been stealing from us since day one, while continuously adding to our already worth a Trillion debt in the World Bank.. that mind you... I am pretty sure will carry on to my son's generation of hard working tax payers... but for them to come to this extent? to just push through this w/ complete, total, and blatant disregard to the people's cries of disapproval and dismay?? just bcoz it would play to the best of their interest???
How dare them... and most importantly to the LITTLE GIRL behind all this? How dare you... I never really had any respect for you... never liked you, and never will, but I never thought I would despise you this much.... that it has come to the extent that seeing bad things happen to you... would be equivalent to any day that id have a bowl of popcorn on my lap and a glass of soda in my hands.
Is there really nothing else that we can do as Filipinoes to show our protest to this Little Girl but organize a rally??? coz that is so 2003... and that is the main reason why that despicable person is in the palace in the 1st place!!
I thought her reign would soon be over, and i have been praying that she will be replaced by someone who is the "Lesser Evil" coz I honestly think that so far she is the Ultimate one. And now there's a really good chance that that's not even gonna happen for the dimwit refuses to step down from power.
Im sick of her.
I've had enough of her.
I want her out of that palace.
Out of the Government System.
and most Importantly out of power.
I want a new leader.
I want to exercise my freedom and right to choose one.
I want to vote.
And the sad part is... as of the moment.. I really don't think that there is really someone who can stop her from executing her evil plans... and the only way I can think of, for me not to be under her governance, is to simply get out of the place where it applies..
I have never been a hard core patriot.. But I love this country and am proud to be a Filipino..
But right now... if this CHAnge really does happen.. This is not really the place where I want my son to grow up in. If they will strip me off my rights.. Im sure as hell they would my son too.
May God Help Us All.
Pacquiao eyes Mayweather fight in October
MANILA (AFP) - - Manny Pacquiao said he will climb back into the ring in October to fight Floyd Mayweather or whoever his promoters deem fit after the Philippines boxing superstar took a sixth world title.
The awesome "Pacman" knocked out Ricky Hatton with a devastating left hook in the second round in Las Vegas on Saturday for his 10th triumph in a row and claimed the Briton's International Boxing Organisation junior welterweight world title, equalling a record of six weight titles.
"My next fight will probably be in October or November," Pacquiao, who started his ring career as a light-flyweight, told DZBB radio here by telephone as he returned to his Los Angeles home.
He said he would go on vacation with his family while keeping an eye on the outcome of former undisputed welterweight champion Mayweather's comeback fight on July 18 against Mexico's Juan Manuel Marquez.
"I will probably fight Mayweather, but I am ready to fight whoever my promoters want me to face," he said.
Pacquiao took on then retired Mayweather's title as the world's best pound-for-pound fighter after pummelling Oscar de la Hoya into retirement in December.
Manila newspapers on Monday feted the rags-to-riches Pacquiao, splashing huge pictures of his Hatton knockout on their front pages.
"The greatest fighter ever," the Philippine Star crowed, echoing a claim made by his US promoter Bob Arum.
"A great day for the Philippines," said the Manila Standard Today. "Pacquiao now boxing legend," said the Philippine Daily Inquirer.
His trainer Freddie Roach however suggested on Saturday that a big-money showdown with Mayweather will not happen any time soon unless the American comes down to 140 pounds, where the Filipino is the current king.
The fate of Ricky Hatton is less clear with former world featherweight champion Barry McGuigan urging him to hang up his gloves, saying his career is over following his defeat.
"After a loss like that there is no point talking about a future in the ring," he wrote in the Daily Mirror, after Hatton was knocked out in Las Vegas.
McGuigan added: "He was a world class boxer, one of Britain's finest, no question. Now it is time to go."
He said Hatton "need not come down hard on himself", saying Pacquiao and Floyd Mayweather Jnr, who beat Hatton in the same ring 17 months ago, were "two of the greatest fighters to have laced gloves".
"Hatton was relentless himself at his best. He has compiled a fabulous career and put serious money in the bank. There is no point carrying on," McGuigan wrote.
"It won't ever undo the defeats of the past 18 months and he has no chance of avenging them at this stage."
SOURCE:http://ph.news.yahoo.com/afp/20090504/tap-box-usa-juniorwelter-gbr-phi-pacquia-2a5be5e.html
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