You Don't Have to..

you don't have to be rude to make a point, you don't have to shout to get the point across.

you can always choose to be tactful or tactless, if u choose the latter, don't tag it as "that's just the way i am..."

coz that's BS!! Everything that comes out of your mouth is ur responsibility!

you don't have to put other people down just to feel better about yourself,.

you don't have to put the blame on others just cause u can't stand the thought of being at fault.

and if people quit u, it's either they need a breather, a space to let u realize how you've been behaving.. or..

they've had enough of what you dish out, and just say.." screw you, I'm done."


there are people who can get by and tolerate rudeness and uncalled for sarcasm.. and that's okay..

but im not one of them.. so don't be one to me.

and if that makes me a bad person.. then so be it..

bottom line..

A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

and im sick of being mistreated, and disrespected... and the person not even realizing that they're being
disrespectful..

who the hell would want to be in the company of someone who makes u feel bad more than half of the day?


yun lang naman....

Landslide.. performed by Gwyneth Paltrow

Landslide lyrics

Songwriters: Nicks, Stevie;





I took my love, I took it down

Climbed a mountain and I turned around

And I saw my reflection in the snow covered hills

Till the landslide brought me down



Oh, mirror in the sky, what is love?

Can the child within my heart rise above?

Can I sail through the changing ocean tides?

Can I handle the seasons of my life?

Mmm, mmm, mmm



Well, I've been afraid of changing

'Cause I've built my life around you

But time makes you bolder

Even children get older and I'm getting older too



Well, I've been afraid of changing

'Cause I've built my life around you

But time makes you bolder

Even children get older and I'm getting older too

Oh, I'm getting older too



Awh, take my love, take it down

Awh, climb a mountain and turn around

And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills

Well, the landslide bring it down



And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills

Well, the landslide bring it down

Oh, the landslide bring it down

..











It's a song about someone who've made an impact in your life, and been a great part of it,



whether through good or bad, or in between. and the time has come to make u look back and

realize how important there role were, and having to go through life w/o them is unimaginable...

and yet u have to move on and live life w/o them, coz that's just how it should be,

and no matter how much u think it will all be for the better.....

u just know it would be different..





ull move on and start anew.. but as you move through and with the changes..



deep in ur heart is a beautiful memory of someone.. who has helped u become

strong enough to go through it all.

and u may never see them again..

but there's an unspoken understanding...



that you'll always wish eachother well. :)



Sunday, March 13, 2011 at 9:53am

Thoughts

It's okay when people laugh at me when they see how transparent i am with how and what i feel, as long as it doesn't cross the line.
i've always been tagged as "emotional". i say and act how i feel. i look happy when i am, i appear sad if i am, i'm caught in pure surprise when i am, my eyebrows meet when i'm upset. i cry when i'm hurt and offended, i give out hugs in appreciation. i give a thumbs up sign and say Great Job to a worthy recipient. i'm silent when there's a need for me to shut up and bite my tongue, and i walk away when i know it's not worth the fight. that's just me.. i may not be the most composed and together person. but always... i try my best to put a smile on my face, and try to look for something positive than dwell on the negative. you may hate me or love me, but the point is... whatever i dish out, it's my truth..

but i've never ever been rude and unjust, nor judgemental and disrespectful, even to the ones i don't see eye to eye with, and i reserve the right to expect nothing less.


yun lang naman.

Be Kind To Yourself And Others

Kindness is a generosity of spirit. It comes to life when we give of ourselves and our time to be of help to others, without expecting anything in return. When you show kindness to somebody you bring out the best in yourself, and a side-effect of brightening up somebody else’s day is to feel happier in the moment yourself.

Pay attention to the impact your behaviour has on others, and notice your own feelings in association to their reactions. And think about how you feel yourself when somebody else shows you kindness. What you give comes back to you in even greater quantity. When you are kind, you not only get an immediate payback in terms of a feel-good factor, you will also receive kindness from others, and in completely unexpected and unrelated ways.




It is so easy to find ways to be kind to others: say something supportive when you instinctively feel someone needs to hear it; offer help without being asked for it; smile encouragingly; swallow your criticisms; listen without judgement; let mistakes slide instead of assigning blame; make small sacrifices for the benefit of somebody in greater need.

A great rule of thumb I apply to my life is to Do unto others as I’d have them do unto me, and, do unto myself as I’d do unto others. The latter part is just as important as the first. It is no good to be consistently kind to others and forget to be so to yourself. You will run out of steam, and feel less able to show kindness to others if you don’t replenish your own mind, body and spirit on a regular basis.






Being kind to yourself means getting your needs met, being gentle with yourself instead of critical when you feel you’re not performing at your best, forgiving yourself when the need arises instead of beating yourself up. When you get into the habit of treating yourself with kindness, it becomes much easier to extend that consideration and behavior to others.


3/7/11

A Positive Thursday..

Everyday, some people will try to drag you into their negative energy, but as long as you know better

than to let them get to you, You'll be fine.

So, surround urself w/ positive and happy people, fill ur head w/ great memories and happy thoughts,

find something to laugh about, and before you know it, you're smiling again.

Tears may fall once in a while, the cuts may get deeper and take a while to heal,

but as long as in between those tears and deep sighs, you can find something in

your heart to smile about...

you just know.. this too shall pass,

and though life maybe hard at times,

it's still, and always will be...

Beautiful.

03/03/11